The answer is that globin subunits are not single points in space.
If we look at two corresponding points x on a1 and a2 globins, these points will move closer in R state.
However, if we take two non-corresponding locations, point n in a1 and point c in a2 that happen to be close together in T-state, then watch as the subunits rotate into the R state position, point n will move away from point c.